Posted on October 18, 2013 by chongkinfai

很多人都愛將自己所經歷的痛苦加諸於人。例如有些人愛將他上司曾帶給他的各種不合理痛苦加之於其下屬，以為這樣是樹立其權威。有時更加倍地令其下屬接受不合理的待遇。其實這只顯示了當事人能力的缺失、思想的幼稚、心胸的狹隘、甚至可能是種失衡的病態。至少當事人並非寬厚的人。真正有能力、才幹的人只會量事、量能而為；有領導才能的都是心胸廣闊的。人當已所不欲，勿加諸人。將所愛的推廣給人，所惡的還是把它藏起來、或忘掉好了。

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