我們經常都想尋找心中的至愛，認為這是天賜良緣可遇而不可求，時時都在期盼，在適當時自有適當人。其實這是一種絕對錯誤的想法；這是人類處於無奈被動時的諸種消極想法之一:煩惱時、不順時、低潮時、失業時、失戀時等不一而足；其中我們都忽略了，自己在逆勢時是否過於消極，而未能積極尋求某種解決方案？或者至少是權宜之計？正如對愛一樣，即使我們遇到適當的人，若然我們不去好好經營、好好珍惜；那縱使當初如何如膠似塑，到頭來也是一場空。
所以，我們處於任何境遇，順也好、逆也罷都要盡己所能去拼搏，盡心盡力去發揮，遇神殺神、遇佛弑佛(說誇了點)，那即使失敗了也能頂天立地無所負於天地人！

We often want to find the hearts of loved ones, which is considered divine in scarce, and always are looking forward to, where appropriate, its own proper person. In fact, this is an absolutely wrong idea; This is a passive man in frustration when one of a variety of negative thoughts: worry, it is not going smoothly, at low tide, unemployment, and so on and so forth when lovelorn; which we have ignored, themselves whether contrarian too negative, while not actively seeking a solution? Or at least expedient? As for love, like, even though we met the right people, and if so we do not make good business, cherish; how did that even such as plastic like plastic, in the end is futile.
So, we are in any situation, whether it is smooth or not to smooth, all want to do our best to fight, dedicated to play, God resists kill God, Buddha stop killing the Buddha (say boast a point), and that even if nothing can fail indomitable spirit world lost people!